Comments on: Say No to Say Yes http://pinwheelgirls.com/say-no-to-say-yes helping women be true to themselves Sat, 12 May 2012 15:34:24 +0000 hourly 1 By: PWgirl http://pinwheelgirls.com/say-no-to-say-yes/comment-page-1#comment-72 PWgirl Thu, 17 Jun 2010 02:24:42 +0000 http://pinwheelgirls.com/?p=1830#comment-72 Hi Sandra! I agree 100% selfish is 100% giving - what a perfect way to explain it. So many women cannot say no. When I ask them why, they say they feel guilty, or they are afraid to, it makes them uncomfortable, they don't want to hurt someone, etc. I feel that saying no is perfectly acceptable when that is what must be said. And, in fact, it is often imperative that you do say no. Saying "no" is a skill just like any other skill that has to be learned. It requires practice. Hi Sandra! I agree 100% selfish is 100% giving – what a perfect way to explain it. So many women cannot say no. When I ask them why, they say they feel guilty, or they are afraid to, it makes them uncomfortable, they don’t want to hurt someone, etc. I feel that saying no is perfectly acceptable when that is what must be said. And, in fact, it is often imperative that you do say no. Saying “no” is a skill just like any other skill that has to be learned. It requires practice.

]]> By: Sandra Hendricks http://pinwheelgirls.com/say-no-to-say-yes/comment-page-1#comment-71 Sandra Hendricks Wed, 16 Jun 2010 18:52:56 +0000 http://pinwheelgirls.com/?p=1830#comment-71 I like this "Without taking care of yourself, you’re no good to anyone else. It is NOT selfish to put yourself first. It is self-preservation." 100% selfish = 100% giving I like this “Without taking care of yourself, you’re no good to anyone else. It is NOT selfish to put yourself first. It is self-preservation.”

100% selfish = 100% giving

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