Shutting Out the Shutting Out

Something to keep in mind — you know that old, familiar feeling of a door always slamming in your face? Something or someone always shutting you out? You feel that sinking feeling. Again. Why won’t they let you in?

Be Patient With Yourself

Be extremely patient with yourself. Transformation does not occur all at once. It happens step by step, day by day, bit by bit. It is a process that evolves, unfolds, and surfaces. While parts of you transform, other parts stand still or even regress. It is the lifelong work of a woman to know this [...]

You Will Get What You Need

We often want to control everything and everyone in order to get the outcome we badly desire. Surrender is about giving up the need to control and instead trusting that Life will deliver to you exactly what you need when you need it. Trust Life. Surrender is worth it.

Learn to Prevail

Prevailing is underrated. Prevailing is good! It’s strength in action. It’s about stamina, going the distance, staying the course. Prevailing is about will power and resolve and getting down to business about things. Prevailing is serious. There is a lot of talk and discussion about how you are supposed to thrive, not just survive. To [...]

I Am Glad You Are Here

Life is precious. Here one day, gone the next, like a vapor. Practice gratitude for what you have, who you have, and who you are. Yes, we have troubles, wishes that haven’t come true yet, problems to solve and things that keep us awake at night. But the reality is we are alive and living. [...]

Is it Girl or Woman?

A lot of people ask me why I created a pinwheel “girl” and not a pinwheel “woman.” While critiquing my book, The Pinwheel Girl Takes Flight~ Every Woman’s Journey Through Seven Stages of Transformation, a person my age who identified herself as a “feminist” told me she didn’t like the word “girl” and because I [...]

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